chicago travesty
another precious life is gone. and that is more than sad for the family touched by this brutal death. for them it is devastating, potentially crippling. and it is final. i’m referring to the beating death of, Derrion Albert.

blogs and websites, news stations and social and civil rights orgs are all up in arms, and they well should be. but this fight is bigger even than the life it so viciously stole.
there is some tragic irony, even in the place where this brawl occurred. Chicago, a place so closely associated with our president. i’m disturbed by all of this because this year has been pregnant with change and electrified with a resurgence of hate and open bigotry.
i feel deep sorrow, because this beating carries some heavy significance and flies in the face of those who have gone before and those who remain today who’ve fought against the negative words, thoughts and presumptions often hurled against blacks.
a step backward in the march toward change. i’m heartbroken because this fight is a reflection of where my people are today. a hard pill to swallow for many of us who are and have lived a life of upward mobility.
but perhaps we are to blame. why is there a disconnect in our communities? we get educated, get money, get famous, get good jobs, and we essentially abandon our communities. we run far from the inner cities and point our crooked, bourgeoisie fingers at those who remain. we blame laziness, and lack of motivation.we never blame ourselves.
there is something to be said about the physical representation of inspiration. we, should be that. in the form or mentors, neighbors, church families. later for going home to our big houses in suburbia, to hide away and focus on us. i don’t know who said it, but we indeed have to be the change we wanna see. we can’t clutch our pearls and look from the sidelines waiting for “them people” to change.
i’m tired of black leaders only making noise when tragedies occur. please don’t get me wrong…there are people on the front lines, but not enough. churches and black people in general are so content with the status quo, that we are failing. isn’t anyone else tired of this?
we have to be hands on. we have to go back into our communities and inspire change. we have to look in the eyes of the poorest and most destitute of our children and see our own reflections. it is our responsibility to pull our people and our children up toward their best. no more crabs in a barrel.
if we don’t, no one will.
if we don’t, we have no right to say a word. we oughta just shut up and stay hidden in suburbia, in our offices, and in our sanctuaries and CHANGE nothing.

We all have to make a move for change to happen and I don’t see it happening any time soon.
u know ladynay, you are so right. on both accounts.
and i am a mix between sorrow and anger. why won’t we wake up?
we been lulled to sleep, busied with the latest hiphop gossip, or twitter and fb statuses…and whatever else to busy ourselves; that we turn a blind eye to the active decay going on.
btw, thank u for following me over here.
I wish we had a ‘quick fix’ for this madness. What happened is that we’re so concerned with our own successes that we ignore all this horrible stuff going on and just blame it on their lack of responsibility or their lack of making an effort to ‘get it together’.
I believe ultimately it’s gonna take a changing mindset and attitude within the black community, and not just a percentage of us. We know what is right and wrong, the problem is that we just shake our heads at what is wrong, rather than applying corrective solultions to the issue(s) at hand. We need a much higher level of accountability, even among people we don’t know. Some things we can intercept before they escalate into a horrible situation, like the blog above. The issues we face are the result of events that happen over time, and a lot of it, sadly, is not new. We have to start applying solutions! Of course, that would mean we’d have to be continually ALERT and PROACTIVE.
I wonder if we need another ‘Civil Rights’ movement. Not against any other race, but against the things that we are doing to ourselves! We really need to be liberated from this madness. It needs to happen across the entire nation and everyone in the black community needs to do their part. And we have to stop blaming everybody and everything else! The ‘white man’ didn’t kill Derrion! The sad thing is we are so busy blaming everybody else, that we don’t realize we are killing ourselves in the process.
The black community is better than this! We can’t just shake our head at all of this violence and broken families and underachievement, etc. It’s has to be unacceptable! And we can’t be satisfied just if ‘we’ are doing the right thing. We must make sure that we ALL are doing the right thing, and the slightest indication of the wrong thing can’t be tolerated in any way! Ok, I’m done writing for now…
Musicman- this is so true. it saddens me. it also makes me question what is going on with the established leadership we have in America. President Obama cant do anything, it is up to the leaders, and it is up to us- the churches, pastors, youth leaders to go touch the people.
i think we are afraid, and just plain disinterested until it touches us…but we have to do something. we just have to.
i plan to.-one voice can make a difference
It’s so important to speak out and create positive change.
This truly is a messed up situation. I hate to disagree with you on my first visit, but I don’t know… maybe because things like this still happen is a good reason for us not to want to live in the inner city. I know I wouldn’t want to raise my kids in an environment that allows things like that to happen. I’m all for principle, but the practical application is that I want MY kids to be safe and that takes precedence.
Rashan-we don’t disagree. I live in the suburbs.I am a single mom. Notice I mentioned neighbors, but I also mentioned mentors and church family. I don’t think everyone has to go set up shop in the hood…however, i think we shouldn’t fully abandon it. In other words we need to go back in other ways. I work in the inner city and go to school there. I have the pleasure of working with impoverished and troubled people every day through the public defenders office and it is rewarding to touch someone and encourage people that they can achieve more. They believe it when they see me…a single mom of 4, under 30 and in law school and working in my legal career already. That is inspiration Rashan, that is what I meant.
Thanx so much for coming by. please come back k??
I love you passion in this post.